If you’re a man who’s confused about consent, you aren’t alone. In the post #MeToo era, men know they need to get consent but don’t know how to ask for it. They may be afraid of doing the wrong thing or are worried about giving up hot sex. Eric FitzMedrud PhD explains how toxic masculinity harms men thus ruining sex for themselves and their partners. Today consent on college campuses is a particular area of concern. He shows men how to celebrate male sexuality and how to learn evidenced-based skills and strategies for practicing consent. Getting consent can be sexy. He also shows men how to communicate more effectively in their relationships, using principles of safety and health to pursue passionate sex. Dr. FitzMedrud, who identifies as polyamorous and bisexual, is a licensed psychologist and a member of the American Association of Sexuality, Educators, Counselors and Therapists. He earned his Ph.D from Loyola University in Chicago.