If you've ever experienced significant marital problems, you may have gone to a therapist to get to the root of your conflict and deal with it in a healthy way. But counseling isn't always as helpful as you might imagine. Venting every week about how your spouse has wronged you can supercharge your anger and encourage you to see yourself as a victim. Couples therapist Ziba Graham Jr. shares the strategies that have dramatically improved his clients' lives, giving you the tools you need to create genuine, lasting change. He teaches couples how to recognize what is not working, how to focus on the future instead of negative past experiences and offers tips on how to effectively communicate. He has an MBA from Indiana University, a master’s in social work from the University of Louisville, and an associate degree and substance abuse certificate from Vincennes University.